Thinking Out Loud

October 30, 2014

Church Tech Gear: Feeding the Bottomless Pit

Tic-Tac-Blinders-Church-Stage-Design

Who’s up for some adventure?

Your mission Jim, should you decide to accept it, is to get at least 30 church of varying size to grant you access to their budgets for the last 30 years.  Your job is to pinpoint how much churches are spending on tech-related equipment for the worship center, sanctuary, main auditorium or whatever you call the place where people now are led in worship by bands using the latest in-ear monitoring systems, the loudest amplification and the brightest spotlighting and back-lighting that money can buy; all while lyrics, sermon theme teaser videos and message slides project on one or more screens. Don’t forget those broadcast-quality cameras, the licenses to show video clips and words to songs, and the software that allows parishioners to stream the service live or watch later on-demand.

Then, if those churches will allow you, dig deeper than the budgeted amounts and percentage increases over the years, and find out what equipment was purchased, how long it lasted, and how much of it was, by the mutual agreement of all concerned, trashed prematurely because something better came along. Or how much of that gear is still sitting in back rooms and storage closets without even so much as a yard sale or eBay offering that would at least contribute an offset to present spending.

Churches are spending a whole lot of money these days on technology-related stuff, and we haven’t begun to touch what’s being spent on word processing and communications in the church office, or tech spending on the place where children and teens gather. (Fortunately, except for parent paging systems, the nursery has been spared the hi-tech assault, at least I think so, my kids are well past that stage.)

As in government or charity work, everyone’s money is no-one’s money, and waste and inefficiencies abound. My point is that churches are quite capable of screwing up the stewardship process from within, so they don’t need problems coming from outside.

But that’s just what is happening.

For the second time, churches now face a round of having to replace cordless microphones and monitoring system because, for the second time, the FCC is proposing to auction off a section of the UHF spectrum in 2016 in which those devices operate.  This would render more equipment useless; a situation that some churches are still recovering from financially, not to mention community arts groups and private clubs and concert venues.

Are not landfills in the United States already overflowing with television sets rendered obsolete by the conversion to digital TV?

A petition asking the FCC to reconsider this has only two weeks — until November 12th — left to collect signatures.  You can sign the petition, and then forward this, or the article below, to the tech people in your church, your church finance and budget committee, and the musicians on your worship teams.

Read more about this at Technologies for Worship website


Ethics question: Should the winners of the frequency auction, if it happens, be forced to compensate microphone and wireless equipment owners.


Graphic image: From a recent article at Church Stage Design website.

October 29, 2014

Wednesday Link List

Orange Curriculum Parody Poster

Our graphic image theme this week is parody. The upper one is a supplement to the Orange Curriculum, a weekend service Christian education experience for children. You can click on the image and then surf the rest of the web page to learn more.

A bumper harvest this week; get coffee first.

The rest of the week Paul Wilkinson offers you a daily choice between trick at Thinking Out Loud, or treat at Christianity 201.

What a Mug I Have of Coffee

October 28, 2014

The Westboro Saga Continues

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , — paulthinkingoutloud @ 6:03 am

Religion News Service posted an interesting story and video last week. As many of you know the Westboro Baptist Church property sits just 50 feet away from another home in the suburban neighborhood that mounted a counter-protest by painting the siding in the rainbow colors of gay rights.

I decided to check out the divide first hand on Google Street View and captured this:

Westboro Baptist and its Neighbor - from Google Street View

Two things surprised me. The first was how sedate and suburban the street is. The second was how unimposing the Westboro building is, given their worldwide infamy. (Was the word ‘God’ in the banner blurred out by Google, or was that just a camera thing?)

The video includes a visit to WBC’s protest sign library; they are prepared for all contingencies. This movement is not going away anytime soon, as some thought it might with the passing of Fred Phelps, Sr.

The other interesting moment for me was a quotation from one of their neighbors from the house by a member of the group Planting Peace, “…the perfect opportunity to promote freedom of speech, and also again to show the obvious juxtaposition: Where there’s hate, there’s love.”

Yes. Except the hate adjective here belongs to self-styled “Christians.” In a public relations contest, the gay-rights people would win all the votes of an unbiased audience.

I decided not to embed the video which features drag queen Gabby Godiva, but you can send RNS reporter Sally Morrow some click-love by watching the video and reading the story at source.

October 27, 2014

Religious Persecution in America: The Gay Wedding Trap

Filed under: current events — Tags: , , , — paulthinkingoutloud @ 9:33 pm

Whether it involves a wedding cake, printed invitations, or floral arrangements, everyone has heard a story involving a principled store owner who refused to do work for a gay wedding. But this story has a few twists. First, the proprietor, Barronelle Stutzman, had in fact done work for the couple previously; she was simply uncomfortable with doing the flowers for the actual wedding. Second, the couple didn’t file the complaint; if I understand correctly the state’s Attorney General heard about the situation on social media and filed its own charges.*

This video was produced in March by ADV, Alliance Defending Freedom. It’s newsworthy today after being shown hours ago in Nashville at a conference of the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission of the Southern Baptist Convention, where the owner of the flower store then greeted attendees in person.


*I hope I got that right; as a Canadian I don’t always get the nuances of U.S. law, but clearly there wasn’t the normal “plaintiff” that you usually find in stories like this.

Central Theme: The Cross

One of my strong beliefs is that instead of shutting down for the weekend, perhaps some blogs and websites should ramp it up a bit. For many people, the days off work are lonely and depressing. For several months awhile ago I actually ran extra posts on the weekend.

This week we ran what I thought was a fairly solid series of posts on Friday (parenting kids in the internet age), Saturday (a massive blogroll), and Sunday (one busy family’s activity log). But the rush to do all that left me crashing in terms of what to run on Monday morning. As I went through the archives, I found what you see below. When all the newsy stories, scandals, book releases, church statistics and leadership advice is done and dispensed with, this is what matters:

“I must die or get somebody to die for me. If the Bible doesn’t teach that it doesn’t teach anything.” ~ Dwight L. Moody
“The heaviest end of the cross lies ever on his shoulders. If he bids us carry a burden he carries it also.” ~ Charles Spurgeon
“Jesus now has many lovers of His heavenly kingdom, but few bearers of His cross.” ~ Thomas a Kempis
“In many respects I find an unresurrected Jesus easier to accept. Easter makes him dangerous. Because of Easter, I have to listen to his extravagant claims and can no longer pick and choose from his sayings. Moreover, Easter means he must be loose out there somewhere.” ~ Philip Yancey
“God proved his love on the cross. When Christ hung, bled and died it was God saying to the world, ‘I love you.'” ~ Billy Graham

October 26, 2014

The Busyness of Life

Filed under: family, parenting — Tags: , , , , , — paulthinkingoutloud @ 9:53 am

When Life is Busy

This is the three day schedule for a family we know that lives north of Toronto, Canada. My first reaction when I saw this was, “Hey, this is nuts!” But my second reaction was, “Hey, this is fairly normal for a lot of families.” I’m sure when their kids were younger it was no different, only it was about soccer practice and music lessons and youth group. So how is it in your family? To read this at source with additional commentary at Murray’s Musings, click this link.

Now that we’ve moved north of Toronto our daily ritual is figuring out who needs to be where and when and who their going to carpool with to minimize the number of cars that leave the driveway. With four cars and five people this could be easy — if money was no object — but the rising price of gas forces us to do our best to minimize movement.

However, we have three kids, in three different schools, me at work in the city most days, and my wife who has commitments in town at the Pregnancy Care Centre and visiting her Mom, so it makes for interesting schedules and planning.

For instance this is how our schedule has looked (or will likely look) this week:

Monday:

  • M, N, T & B leave at 6:30am
    • B gets dropped off at the bus stop in Newmarket (and this didn’t even work, as the bus got B to school 15 minutes late!!!)
    • T gets dropped off at school in North York
    • M gets dropped off at work in Scarborough
    • N takes car and visits Mom and goes to PCC
  • D takes leaves home at 8:00am
    • D parks at Don Mills and takes subway to school downtown
  • N picks up M at 4:30pm and drives home
  • D picks up T at 7:00pm and drives home
  • M picks up B at 10:15pm from bus stop in Newmarket

Tuesday:

  • B leaves for work at 6:30am in Newmarket
  • M & T leave at 7:00am
    • T gets dropped off at school in North York
  • D leaves for school at 10:00am (parks at Don Mills and takes subway to school)
  • N stays at home and works
  • B returns at 2:00pm
  • D returns at 6:00pm
  • M picks up T at 5:00pm and travels home

Wednesday:

  • B leaves for school at 6:00am and drives to Newmarket where she catches the YRT bus to York
  • M & T leave at 7:00am
    • T gets dropped off at school in North York
  • N & D leave at 9:00am
    • D gets dropped off at Don Mills subway and goes to school
    • N runs errands, visits Mom, and has a meeting in the evening in Scarborough
  • B returns from school at 3:00pm
  • M picks up T at school at 4:30pm
  • M & T pick up D at friends at 5:00pm and drive back
  • N returns from meeting at 10:00pm

October 25, 2014

Peeking Inside Paul’s Computer: Christian Blog List

Okay, you need to be a Christian blog nerd to appreciate this, but I thought today I’d give you an inside look at my computer; specifically, all the Christian blogs that I have bookmarked there.  The blogroll you see in the right margin of Thinking Out Loud is just a small part of a bigger picture.  So here they are in no particular order, except that the first 40 or so are kinda on speed-dial — remember that Seinfeld episode? — and the bottom 40 or so have been added more recently. But otherwise, there’s no predictable pattern.  If you see anything here that’s not a blog, or a link that’s become corrupted, let me know. Also note that missing in this list are several blogs that I consider more as news sites, a handful of Patheos blogs, and also missing (because they’re in another directory) are about 30 blogs that do things similar to the Wednesday Link List. Have fun!

Stuff Fundies Like
Marketing Christian Books
Hear the Voice Blog
Without Wax
The Tony Jones Blog
ToddRhoades.com | Pastors and Church Leader News and Opinion
Phil Vischer
internetmonk.com
Blog |Philip Yancey
On Faith & Culture | Jonathan Merritt’s blog at Religion News Service
Parchment and Pen | Making Theology Accessible
Blog – ReKnew
Red Letter Christians – What if Jesus Really Meant What He Said?
The Master’s Table
blog.worship.com
NewSmallChurch.com
SKYEBOX » the weblog of Skye Jethani
Jon Acuff — Author | Speaker | Awesome
The Wartburg Watch
FBC Jax Watchdog
FaithVillage | MOVE YOUR FAITH HERE
holy heteroclite:
holy heteroclite
Bene Diction Blogs On
Beliefs of the Heart
The blog of Matthew Paul Turner
Rachel Held Evans | Rachel’s Blog Articles
Darrell Creswell’s Blog
Lorna Dueck: Her thoughts on world issues from a Christian Perspective
Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove —
Passionately His
churchrelevance.com
ThinkChristian.net – Blogging about the intersection of faith and culture
Another Red Letter Day
onehandclapping —
LeadingSmart
Trey Morgan.net
Refine Us | To remove impurities from something…
Blog In My Own Eye
Jamie the Very Worst Missionary
Blog and Mablog
Reclaiming the Mission :: The Weblog of David Fitch
THE ORPHAN AGE
Brad Lomenick
One Passion One Devotion
Eric Metaxas » Blog
Kouya Chronicle
The Thinklings
rob bell
Red-Letter Believers
Cindy by the Sea
IVP – Andy Unedited
Lifestream Blog
Bruxy | The web site
The Heart Of The Matter
Donald Miller’s Blog — Best-Selling Author Of Books, And Stuff
Shaun Groves
Reformed Arminian Blog
Cold Case Christianity by J. Warner Wallace – Christian Apologetics
learning my lines. . .
David Kenney – Reciprocal Ecclesiology in a Pseudo Post-Modern Malaise.
Karen Spears Zacharias
The Bible and Culture — A One-Stop Shop for All Things Biblical and Christian
Pastor Steven Furtick
The Church of No People
City of God -
Soulfari
BadCatholic
Revitalize Your Church
Cain’s Wife Answer
Digging a lot
LarkNews.com
Quantum Tea – UK God Blogs
Glocal Christianity
Theophilus Monk’s Christian Faith & Theology Weblog
the Jesus Manifesto
Prodigal Magazine
Faith Blogs
http://catchjohnfischer.wordpress.com/
Losing My Religion
jonnybaker
A Living Alternative Our Missional Pilgrimage
Kruse Kronicle
Soiled Wings
300 words a day
Homebrewed Christianity
Zac Hicks – Worship. Church. Theology. Culture. – Zac Hicks Blog
My World
Will Mancini
CBMW » Gender Blog
http://jennicatron.tv/
TheWorshipCommunity.Com – Worship Leader Resources, Articles, Forums
Rumblings
Activate CFPL – Blog
Clarion: Journal of Spirituality and Justice
http://5ptsalt.com/
Sand in the Gears
Jesus Creed
American Jesus
Daily Christian Quotations
Semicolon | Books we must have though we lack bread.
God Is My Constant
Growing in Faith
reboot christianity
Mockingbird
The Bible and Culture
Calvinistic Cartoons
The Bible Hunter
Church and Family Cartoons by Tim Walburg
Simply Church: A House Church Perspective
Searching for grace
Strengthened by Grace
Journey of Worship | Thoughts and experiences on the journey of worship
Cake Or Death (Christian Church cartoons by Alex Baker)
People of the Second Chance | Overthrow Judgment. Liberate Love.
More Christ
Murray’s Musings
Till He Comes | Bringing Scripture and Theology to Life
God Discussion | For Seekers Who Don’t Go To Church
whyismarko — life, faith, youth ministry, emerging church, leadership, whimsy
Zombies. Theology. Whatever | Pastor Matt
http://goandmake.ca/
Faith In The Journey
I’m Waiting
Newgenesis Resurrection Ministries
Right Wing Watch
Living Proof Ministries Blog
Blog | Zondervan Author Mark Buchanan
jeff mikels
Musings by Robert
A Joyful Noise
Big Ear Creations
America’s Next Top Mommy
Dan White Jr.
Practical Faith
God Speaks I Listen
5:21 | Life & Gospel Reflections
the blue fish project (dave bish)
Wayne Stiles
Based on a True Story | Nathan Colquhoun
http://dbts.edu/blog/
Tall Monastic Guy
Gay Christian Movement Watch
JANELLE KEITH
Blue Letter Bible: The Blog | the official blog of blueletterbible.org
Straight-Friendly
Truthinator’s Blog
Glory to God for All Things
Mike King
The Radical.net Blog
Coming Out Christian — Conversations about being Christian and gay in America
RenaissanceNow | Ubi Caritas et Amor, Deus Ibi Est
Chilly Chilton | Christian | Husband | Father | Mentor | Pastor | Friend | Detroit
Jesus, I will follow you.
The Domain for Truth
A Deeper Story | Tales of Christ and Culture
FROM LEE IN TENNESSEE
the gospel side | The ruminations of a kyriarchist.
The King’s Presence
extraecclesiam…
The Journeyman’s Files
Bob Hostetler’s Prayer Blog
Created to Give God Glory
Looking Through the Windshield
The Prodigal Thought | Pointing prodigal thoughts towards the truth.
Sometimes a Light – Blog
Sue’ s considered trifles
ISTORIA MINISTRIES BLOG
Ralph Howe Blogs
connexions
Reflections | The High Calling
Digging the Word
once for all delivered
The Lewis Crusade | Fighting for human dignity, the worth of the disabled, the salvation of souls and the Gospel of Life
Blogotional
Daily Devotionals, Free Christian Bible Devotions Online
The Bridge Chicago
supersimbo | Christian/Husband/Blogger/Designer/Beard Enthusiast
Modern Reject – Nicole Cottrell: Writer, Speaker, Button-pusher
Christian Film Blog: CFDb’s Blog – Annelie’s Christian Film World Blog | Find Christian Movies on CFDb: Largest list of Christian Films
Prodigal Magazine – The Christian Magazine For Storytellers
Just My Thoughts
efcgraceblog | Thoughts on my never-ending search for grace.
Gestating A Church | Reflections on planting a new church for sinners, saints, and skeptics who join God in the renewal of all things
FaithsMessenger.Com
Bob Rogers | Pastor, First Baptist Church of Rincon, Georgia
Sunday| Magazine – A free online mag all about the creative side of Sundays.
Andy Stanley | Helping Leaders Go Further Faster
The High Calling
More Christ
Bouncing Back — Bouncing back from adversity; Moving forward with hope.
anabaptistly | attempting missional anabaptist living
Java Juice Blog House – FaithVillage | MOVE YOUR FAITH HERE
Doctrine Matters | Bible truths from www.BibleDebates.info
The Palmer Perspective
The Nuance | trailblazing beyond black & white
ChristianBlessings | CLICK A BLESSING TODAY
Pastor Dave Online | Reflections on Christ and Culture
the gospel side | The ruminations of a kyriarchist.
Please Convince Me
re-Ver(sing) Verses | reading, singing, analyzing verses
GrowDeep
Church Curmudgeon (ChrchCurmudgeon) on Twitter
thehopeforlife | Finding true freedom through Jesus
:: We Are Soma » Blog ::
CROSS-SHAPED STUFF | i want to see more stuff shaped like a cross
Joel J. Miller — Where Christian Theology Meets Daily Life
FAITH BOGDANlive well-loved by God! – Blog
Both/And. | Seeking–or making–a third way.
Canadian Writers Who Are Christian
Breaking News Pimp Preacher.com & The Church Folk Revolution
A Geek in the Wilderness – One geek/nerd hybrid journeys through history and the world in an epic search for truth, justice… and great pizza.
July | 2013 | ItsTholhuGospel
dianelindstrom | Overflow
As the Deer
(32) twentyonehundred productions
EerdWord | The blog of Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing Company
PiH Today
Gordon Rumford Ministries
Adam Young
Incourage — daily devotional for women
Reason for Change | Theology isn’t science; it’s art.
Tall Skinny Kiwi » Brand spankin’ new site for tsk
Christian in the Rough — Finding fun in the middle of dysfunction, action at the end of distraction, and grace at the end of disgrace.
Given Breath
lotharlorraine | 4 out of 5 dentists recommend this WordPress.com site
[iDisciple] – Abiding in Christ, Growing in Community, Bearing Fruit
http://www.thepoachedegg.net/
Christian Funny Pictures – A time to laugh
A Parched Soul | Grayson Pope’s blog
Crossroad Junction
the banksyboy brief
when love comes to town
Stand to Reason
Roll to Disbelieve | Grab your 20-siders. We’re going in.
Home – Denison Forum on Truth and Culture
emily t. wierenga
Rebecca Writes – Rebecca Writes
The TallSkinnyKiwi Daily
MEETING IN THE CLOUDS | CLOUDWATCHER’S LIFE STORY and inspirational thoughts
Twitter / AbandonedPics: Abandoned church seems to still …
Christian Forum Site – Welcome to a Friendly Fellowship
the Cripplegate | for a new generation of non-conformists
Author Tricia Goyer
Restoring Significance
Peter Chin – husband, father, pastor, writer | Home
Blogging Theologically | Jesus, Books, Culture, & Theology
The Revangelical Blog – Revangelical Blog – Brandan Robertson- Rethinking. Reforming. Renewing.
Redemption Pictures
Blog – Jeremy Binns
the kiddy pool
Formerly Fundie — Insights, Hopes and Laments on American Christianity
Wordgazer’s Words
Receive with Meekness
Words of Life | Empowering Conversations to Help You Apply the Lifechanging Truths of the Bible
Blogs | Going Beyond Ministries
Catholic Memes
The Ironic Catholic
Defeating the Dragons | overcoming a fundamentalist indoctrination.
reformation 21 | Online Magazine of the Alliance of Confessing Evangelicals
Thoughts about God – Daily Devotionals
Feeding on Christ – Reformed theological resources
Adrian Warnock — Patheos Evangelical
SharperIron | Thinking is fundamental
Love, Joy, Feminism —
H . A | Welcome to Homeschoolers Anonymous.
thatmom.com
Abundant Life Now
Blog | Vince Antonucci
JASON JOHNSON | BLOG
Well Spent Journey
Sandra Stanley
Sam Storms: Oklahoma City, OK > Enjoying God Blog
Abnormal Anabaptist | Come and read what it means to be abnormally Anabaptist. It might surprise you.
TALITHA KUM
Mormon411
Worn Pages
Curious Christian
Church Marketing Sucks
VergeNetwork – YouTube
thexiansatirist | because Xians can be worthy of ridicule…
The Wardrobe Door
Red Letter Believers – Christian Answers for the Curious and the Thoughtful
John H Armstrong | Reflections of a Missional-Ecumenist
No Longer Quivering —
For His Glory | If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation…
Holy Soup – Innovative approaches to ministry.
Faith and Theology
Web devotions
Running the Good Race | “Let us run with perseverance …
The Bible Hunter
clarke’s SOAPBOX – . . . as if I don’t say enough on Sunday mornings!
The thought just occurred to me
Tim’s Blog – Just One Train Wreck After Another
Theo-sophical Ruminations | Theological and philosophical musings
A Cry For Justice | Awakening the Evangelical Church to Domestic Violence
Agog4God | A Gathering of Girlfriends & Guys for GodAgog4God
Confessions of a Funeral Director » @ the Crossroads of this World & the Next
More Than Coping | Mental Illness And The Christian
MANTURITY.COM — REDEFINE MATURITY
Ask Sister Mary Martha
Good Question | A blog by Christopher R. Smith,
Ben Irwin
Liz Boltz Ranfeld
James Pedlar
Pastoralized
The Revangelical Blog – The Revangelical Movement Blog, Podcast, Review
Sermons from a Psycho
Of Dust & Kings – Empowering Faith. Transforming Culture.
Revitalize Your Church
These Christian Times | Prophecy, bible, entertainment and current events
Get Along With God | A blog about discovering a God worth knowing.
Imago Dei
Blog | Practical ShepherdingPractical Shepherding
The Roundabout Way
reboot christianity
The Wanderer | “As I walked through the wilderness of this world . . .”
FaithsMessenger.Com
The Sometimes Preacher | Reflections on Jesus, Scripture, Theology, Ministry, and Church.
Glory to God for All Things | Orthodox Christianity, Culture and Religion
martyduren.com
I am Phoenix
Joy Phenix’s Blog | Joy : Defined
Launch Clarity
InsaneFaithNow | Aspects of life in a post-modern world…
Andrew Knott.org | Empowering Prayer, Encouraging People
ALIFESANCTIFIED.COM
Christianity | Not For Itching Ears
Christian Blog
Liberate
Christian Crier — For Ye That Have Ears To Hear
Gloria Furman
Ben Irwin
Brian Zahnd – Full-time pastor. Occasional author. Would-be mountaineer
BHBlog – Telligent
Christian Gravy
The Church of No People
Blog | CPYU
MomLife Today | EVERY MOMent COUNTS!
Missio Alliance
Blog – The Malphurs Group : The Malphurs Group
Youth For Truth U.S.A.
nish weiseth
The Narthex — Medium
Do Right Christians | WHAT KILLS YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER! ROMANS 8:13, 7:24-25 |AN IFB MINISTRY
Blog — Nancy Beach
Create With Joy | Infuse Creativity In All You Do
Blog | Mere Orthodoxy | Christianity, Politics, and Culture
Faith Beyond Belief
Borrowed Light – that Christ may be the only boast of this generation
Psephizo – scholarship. serving. ministry.
Eugene Cho
theologygrams | Theology explained in diagrams
Ministry Matters™
Mercy Not Sacrifice — The blog of Morgan Guyton
Back Row Online | #BeUndignified
ItsTholhuGospel | I Love God, I Love People, I Love Music…I Am TholhuGospel
Blog | Kate Conner
Real World Worship Leading | A Blog For Worship Leaders Who Lead Normal People In Normal Churches ||| RealWorldWorship.Org
Theoblogy — The Tony Jones Blog at Patheos
Simplify This Life
SonWorshiper | Literary Karaoke
Faith & Frivolity
Possessing the Treasure
The Lonely Pilgrim | A Christian’s Road Home to Rome and Journey Onward
sevennotesofgrace | musing about music and its Creator
Jamie Ivey
We Are Worship
Christianity 201
Get Better Today

October 24, 2014

Parents Possibly Clueless to Kids’ Online Account Activity

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In the 1960s a generation of parents, concerned for their teenagers told the kids to stay away from alcohol. It was turbulent time with seismic shifts taking place in culture which pitted adults against their children, but certainly some of the kids listened.

Instead they turned to drugs.

In the 2010s another generation of parents, concerned for their children told their youngest ones that they didn’t want their time or mental energies consumed with Facebook. This was also a turbulent time with technology in general and social media in particular changing communication and community. Certainly some of the kids obeyed.

Instead they opened Twitter accounts. And Instagram. And Tumblr.

As a researcher and writer who spends several hours each day online, I thrive on rabbit trails. I love seeing where they lead. In an earlier stage of life, when internet addiction consumed me, I referred to myself in terms of “catch and release.” I wanted to feel the thrill of the catch, but had no interest in eating the fish. The statement did not correspond 100% to what I was experiencing, but the sentiment was fairly accurate.

So last week when a series of rabbit trails led me to a handful of rather surprising Twitter accounts, I was rather shocked at the ages — both stated and masked — of the users. A UK survey published in The Guardian a year ago confirmed that “83% of the 11 to 15 year olds whose internet usage was monitored registered on a social media site with a false age…with one even claiming to be 88.”

Meanwhile, in a more recent article, published last week in Atlantic Monthly titled Why Kids Sext, it was reveal how rampant sexting is among both high school and middle school (junior high) youth.

Within an hour, the deputies realized just how common the sharing of nude pictures was at the school. “The boys kept telling us, ‘It’s nothing unusual. It happens all the time,’ ” Lowe recalls. Every time someone they were interviewing mentioned another kid who might have naked pictures on his or her phone, they had to call that kid in for an interview. After just a couple of days, the deputies had filled multiple evidence bins with phones, and they couldn’t see an end to it. Fears of a cabal got replaced by a more mundane concern: what to do with “hundreds of damned phones. I told the deputies, ‘We got to draw the line somewhere or we’re going to end up talking to every teenager in the damned county!’ ”

While 15 minutes of cursory observation by a layperson isn’t sufficient to explain everything, the general sense I got was that for the students concerned, this is normal, this is expected and this is not a problem. This is what you do. Welcome to life in 2014.

When I look back to my own teen years, I can only say that when someone handed you a camera, your first instinct was not to strip and take pictures of yourself. My earliest memories of photo taking were pictures of my friends, a trip to Niagara Falls, my new bicycle, and the kittens that our cat birthed in the basement. (Okay, the cat photo thing hasn’t changed much.) There were boundaries, there was personal privacy, there was modesty. On a high school trip, I remembered the horror when the people billeting myself and a friend put us in a room with a double bed. As soon as they went upstairs, we went out to their station wagon, which contained sleeping bags for a later part of the journey, informing them in the morning that they needn’t change the bed since nobody had used it.

Even in our pajamas — yes, we packed and wore those on this trip since we were guests in peoples’ homes — the notion of same sex contact of even knees or elbows had a certain yuck factor to it.

Today, parents should consider the possibility that their son or daughter’s first kiss may not have been with a person of the opposite sex. And kissing may be the least of their worries. If you can’t picture that, then I suppose denial helps.

You simply can’t talk about all that is taking place for more than about ten minutes without the internet factoring into it. Technology is driving a cultural shift at an unprecedented rate, and telling the kids they can’t use Facebook is simply missing the point.

October 23, 2014

When The War Came to Canada

Members of Parliament barricade the doors to the House of Commons - October 22, 2014; CTV Twitter

Members of Parliament barricade the doors to a caucus chamber – October 22, 2014; CTV Twitter


Exclusive report from someone locked in on the lock-down

Different things impact different readers in different degrees, but after 9/11, there was a newspaper which on its front page story used the headline “When War Came to America.”  I’ve tried to find a screenshot of it unsuccessfully, but I was reminded of it yesterday when the shootings in and nearby Canada’s Parliament Hill combined with events that took place earlier in Quebec this week which would seem to lend credence to the idea that war has indeed come to Canada.

Unlike Spain or England or the US, Canada has so far escaped the terrorism associated with fringe militant groups based in the middle east. Perhaps that has changed or is about to change. As CBC newscaster Peter Mansbridge said yesterday, “While there have been incidents, you have to go back [to 1970]… to see a situation where there have been lock-downs… this is a story unprecedented [in Canada] in recent times.” On Wednesday, that certainly changed.

As a friend emailed, it was just a matter of time until U.S.-style news headlines reached Canada; until our news reports started to look like that those of our neighbors to the south. 

As the day wore on I contacted another friend, Lorne Anderson, only to find that he was locked down as we corresponded.  We asked him for his perspective and his response at suppertime last night reminds us of the priorities you face when you find yourself in the middle of such a situation.

I am writing this from behind locked doors in an office in the Parliament Hill precinct. More than six hours ago a gunman killed a soldier at the National War Memorial; then he or someone else broke into the Hall of Honour in Parliament Hill’s Centre Block where he was killed just metres away from the rooms where the Government and Opposition MPs were holding their weekly caucus meeting.

At this point we don’t know anything about the gunmen, how many there were, what motivated their attack. We don’t even know when they will unlock the doors and let us out – police are concerned there may be more shooters out there.

What we do know is that this will change security procedures on Parliament Hill, and our open seat of government is likely to be a lot less open to the public in the future, and that is a shame.

I suspect that for many Members of Parliament this incident, no matter what the cause is eventually determined to be, will bring about a time of personal reflection on their own mortality. I have seen the video clips on television. Only a door separated our political leaders from the gunman. There is no doubt the death toll could have been much higher, that a much greater tragedy (numerically) was narrowly averted.

I would think that such a close call would lead to a certain amount of introspection, a questioning of priorities on those who were in the rooms on either side of that hall. When you start asking “what if” you need to take it to the logical conclusion. “What if I had been shot?” What if I had died? What would happen to me then?”

The Christians in the room already know the answer to those questions. I hope the other MPs take the time to find out, because you really never do know when you will be facing your own mortality, which makes it always a good idea to know what you are going to say when you meet your maker.

Read more from Lorne here and here

Canada Parliament October 22 2014 CNN Website

Canada in the news: CNN Website 2:00 PM EST Wednesday

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Tweeted Thursday by The Globe and Mail

October 22, 2014

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