I’m about a third of the way through Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life Better by Brant Hansen Show host Brant Hansen. It’s probably lighter reading than many items I cover, but it’s what I need right now after a rather hectic fall season in which my reading schedule went totally out the window. The book in a nutshell: Christians should not be easily offended.
Here’s a quick excerpt.
One of my friends, David, said something this morning during our church gathering that I keep thinking about. He said, “You know what? I think God is really just looking for spiritual people. That’s what He’s always been looking for. He will handle the rest. He wants a people who long to know Him, rest in Him, and love Him.”
That can sound like a “Well, yeah, obviously” moment. But it didn’t strike me that way. I’ve been thinking about it all day, how we love to do everything but “be spiritual.” (By the way, it’s not a generic “spiritual” we’re talking about here. Spirituality must be “with” something or someone, just as much as romance or loyalty. What my friend is referring to is a spirituality based on relating to God through Jesus.)
American church culture, generally speaking, does not encourage this sort of restfulness. Quite the opposite, actually. Instead of inviting people out of the exhausting storm of busy lives, we add to their loads. We give them even more to do, or prompt them to feel guilty about what they’re not doing.
How do I know this? I’ve done it. I was good at it.
Mike was a smart high school kid in my youth group years ago, and very conscientious, too, which explains the question he asked me one day. I think I’d just finished giving a lesson on tithing or something. He earnestly asked, “So I get so confused with all this stuff. Can you just make a list for us so we know we’re doing all the right things?”
“Great idea,” I said. And that week, I made a very awesome pie chart called the “Discipleship Wheel,” broken into eight different parts, to distribute to all of them.
I used a computer. I was proud. It was very professional looking.
“See, guys, just remember to do this stuff: attend worship, do short-term missions, pray, evangelize, give your money to the church and the poor, study the Bible, be a part of youth group, and…”
I can’t remember what the other thing was. Something super-important.
“…and then you can know you’re doing all right with God.”
Mike said, “Thanks!”
I saw Mike – he’s now an engineer and a father of six – not along ago and I told him how sorry I was, and we had a good laugh. Thankfully, he now has a better picture of just how good God is.
He now knows that God did not call us into Pie-Chart Life, however smart-looking the chart. God wants to know us.
Unoffendable is available in paperback from Thomas Nelson.