For some time now, I’ve ended the day unwinding with a 20-minute podcast compiled from excerpts of The Brant Hansen Show. Brant‘s a long-time Christian radio guy who has served with Air-1 and WAY-FM. He’s joined daily by producer Sherri Lynn to whom God has apparently given the gift of laughter.
On the sidebar of Brant’s website I kept noticing a reference to Brant’s book, but I figured it to be some self-published project, after all, these days everybody has a book. Only a few days ago did I realize it had been released through Thomas Nelson, and decided it warranted further investigation.
Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life Better was actually released in the spring of 2015, so we’re coming up to two years. (You’ll notice my blog hasn’t been reviewing new releases lately; I just share what I’m enjoying.) If you think that the people in Christian radio are somewhat shallow, you’re going to be pleasant surprised — perhaps amazed — at the substance in this book.
Basically, Unoffendable is a study of instances in scripture (and real life) where anger is a factor. You could call the book a treatise on the theology of anger, though I prefer to take a positive spin and emphasize non-anger. We can be so quick to assume, to lash out, and to hurt. Our knee-jerk reactions aren’t good for the people in our line of fire, and they’re not good for us.
The timing on this is significant as commentators are constantly reminding us that the hallmark of social media in particular and the internet in general seems to be our ability to be easily offended. At everything. We are an offended generation.
The book isn’t necessary a self-help title. You won’t find, for example, six steps to avoid getting angry. Rather, through personal anecdotes and lessons from scripture, proceeding through the book’s chapters instills a climate of non-offense as you read. There’s a sense in which the book has a calming effect.
In many respects, the book is an extension of and consistent with the radio show. There are sections where Brant quotes letters he received from listeners and in my head, I was hearing those as the phone calls he takes on air. Our ability with today’s technology to access spoken word content by authors means you can really allow your imagination to hear the author as you read. We found a station that streams the whole show — not the podcast — daily and listened in just to get the feel.
I encourage to get your hands on this. Read it for yourself, not just to give to so-and-so who gets mad so quickly. I think there is a sense in which we can all see ourselves within its pages; because we all have times where we’ve over-reacted.
Order Unoffendable through your favorite Christian bookseller; or get more info at Thomas Nelson.
Thanks to Mark at HarperCollins Canada for the review copy.
Paul–first of all I LOVE your blog! Bookmarked and valued. I think there is a dimension that the book is TOTALLY missing. The “anger” this guy is talking about is actually “rage” which is a reaction to fear; not anger. Terrified people lash out–terrified of being vulnerable and “losing” (an argument, position, stature, etc.) I appreciate the Christian publishing world addressing emotion, but it is quite frustrating to read how God-given feelings are “wrong” and feelings get blamed for what are actually impairments of feelings; not feelings themselves. I suggest a reading of Voice Of The Heart by Chip Dodd for some much needed balance to Hansen’s book.
https://www.amazon.com/Voice-Heart-Second-Bible-Study/dp/0984399151/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1485013211&sr=8-3&keywords=voice+of+the+heart
Full disclosure: I work with Chip and co-wrote the bible study that accompanies his book. I have no dog in the hunt (related to making money–you know how THAT goes in publishing) other than to continue to give voice to the place of feelings in living out our sanctification.
Thanks again for my favorite blog of the many blog offerings out there!
Comment by lucastee — January 21, 2017 @ 10:43 am