A comment about “walking down the aisle”: I’m not sure of the direction involved in “up the aisle” and “down the aisle” and whether one walks up to the altar or down, but I think “the person one walks down the aisle with” refers not to the bride’s walk (solo or with her male relative), but rather to the first time a couple walks the aisle as husband and wife, usually away from the altar and out the front door of the church into the world.
But you knew that.

We don’t want to be the cause of any violence…

We both have broader minds and broader bellies.

Strangely enough, my husband had just finished watching a little videoclip of a song entitled “Things you don’t say to your wife” when I asked him the question in your blog title. He said, “No.” Then he stretched. “Too bad.”

I am happy to inform you he is still alive.

My wife says, “The person you are marrying today is not the person you will be married to in 10 years.” And then she looks at me and says, “Thank God!”

We have both changed from when we got married. Our story is long and twisting, most peoples are.

We both had a strong facade which fell apart after marriage. We determined to stick things out, even as our past and present issues collided in a way that I am sure without Christ we would not have survived.

God let us come to the end of ourselves. Now 7 years from that crisis point and after 14 years of marriage I can say we have both changed…..for the better. Our marriage is stronger, our love deeper and as a testimony to that God is blessing us with a second child 11 years after our daughter was born!